More and more of my circle of friends are celebrating 40th birthdays which seems entirely impossible. I think of us all as green behind the ears students finding our way through the world, full of life (and energy), plotting our futures. There is so much we've all done with our lives, marriages, children, careers...and still so much more to come. So sorry, we may be trying to age gracefully, but in my mind we're still 20, drunk and roaring with laughter and probably always will be.